It is the most important feeling that we can receive from outside. An honest person will become trustworthy over time.
We trust people because they develop a reputation for telling the truth. Three things can not hide for long: the Moon, the Sun and the Truth. And the way we put words into use can either make someone’s day or ruin it. Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it. It is better to travel well than to arrive.įocus on the journey, not the destination. People might help you, but they won’t do it for you. So if you want to change you will have to do it yourself. You and only you are responsible for your life and nobody owns you anything. You can read more about how our thoughts affect our life here. The thoughts you are manifesting will have a direct impact on your life. How you put your thoughts into use is what will shape your life. Stop comparing yourself to others, stop having delusional expectations and just ACCEPT yourself.
You are beautiful, you are amazing, you are alive and that’s all that matters. And if you learn to love and accept yourself. Your search for happiness will never end, if you do not learn to accept yourself. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. Happiness is meant to be shared and we always need more in our lives. Happiness has that thing we call “domino effect”. If you ever see a person without a smile, give him yours. Happiness never decreases by being shared. Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. When we react to a situation by feeling anger what actually happens is that we wait revengfull with the intent of directing it at the other person, or sometimes anyone, to release it upon them, but it only backfires on us and we end up with progressively more pain and injury upon our own self, rather than the person we intended to hurt for revenge. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else you are the one who gets burned. So if you want to change something, start now. And the present is the only thing you can control. You shouldn’t chase after the past or place expectations on the future. We could prefer not to have known at all our neighbor, the retired hot-dog stand operator, if it turns out he has just produced the greatest book of poetry his age has seen.10 Quotes by Buddha That Are The Perfect Words To Live Byĭo not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. Any deviation in the fates we have ordained would strike us as not only anomalous but unethical. We have it all arranged in our minds, and the less often we see a particular person, the more satisfying it is to check how obediently he conforms to our notion of him every time we hear of him. Under no circumstances can Z ever betray us. Thus X will never compose the immortal music that would clash with the second-rate symphonies he has accustomed us to. Whatever evolution this or that popular character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds, and, similarly, we expect our friends to follow this or that logical and conventional pattern we have fixed for them. “I have often noticed that we are inclined to endow our friends with the stability of type that literary characters acquire in the reader's mind.